Desperate in Des Moines writes:
"Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all? Which do you recommend (btw, I have to be up early for work)."Hmmm... good question, good question. Here is my answer:
It all depends on who or what you are loving and losing.
If you are in love with, say, amputating appendages, then it is not only good to have loved and lost, but also the point.